In recent weeks I have written several posts about some of the troubles of liberal Quakerism, which are actually not very different from the problems in most of liberal Christianity. For my own sake, if not for yours, it’s time to remind myself what I love about liberal Quakerism. This is my highly subjective list based on how I experience Quakerism. Even when I say “we” and “our”, please understand that I merely mean to capture my experience of who “we” are, it is not an attempt to present these beliefs as representative of others’:
* Form of worship. I no longer call it silent worship because I want to remind myself that silence is just the means by which I worship, not the goal. What is important is waiting expectantly together with others, trusting God will reveal Godself to us during worship, in images, words, or just silently drawing us into God’s own heart.
* Reliance on inward and unmediated revelation. Just as with George Fox’s quote in my banner above, I believe that each one of us can hear the Voice that speaks to our condition. The Word comes to us in the way in which we are able to recognize it, varying from person to person because of the particulars of our own culture, language, and experience. And the Word may be wordless, deeper than language. Yet it is not individualistic – it is the same Word, drawing us to Oneness with each other in God.
* Focus on the potential for living up to the Light God has given each human, rather than on our “propensity to sin”, as it is described in Barclay’s Apology. We can still acknowlegde the reality of sin, but that’s not where Quakers tend to direct our attention. Just like a good driver doesn’t look at the oncoming car (because then the cars would crash into each other), but allows the white line along the side to guide the car. In similar fashion, we focus on the Light, believing that as we look at it, it shapes and forms us and takes us where we ought to go.
* Understanding of decision-making that tells me that, after we have gathered the facts, all we need do is open the ears of our hearts to know what to do. As George Fox said, Christ has come to teach His people Himself. I no longer speak of our decision-making as a consensus model, because consensus is not the goal. To me, reaching consensus is just one of several possible indicators that we may have united with God’s will. Instead I speak of the Quaker model or a theocratic model, which helps me remember that the purpose is to discern the Godly way for our group. We don’t go to church polity books or Robert’s Rules of Order for rules and regulations, but can use Faith and Practice for ideas and others’ experiences on what helps us to come to unity on a course of action.
* Understanding that God’s Spirit can be present in every person, every being, every part of creation. No exceptions. We expect to live accordingly, and this has far-reaching implications for how we live. Every time we speak or act, in big things and in small, we are given the opportunity to proclaim the second Garden of Eden and bring it into existence.
* Quaker faith is experiential – so I don’t need to have an explanation for everything. If I don’t have experience with some matter of theology, I don’t need to speculate or theorize about it but can just wait for the time – if there is one – when God does open my understanding to it. Nor do I need to dismiss something because I don’t understand it. So it is quite alright to let something be and NOT to know or understand.
* Reliance on community, both current and past, for assistance in growing ever closer to God. The community of the past includes the Bible and religious figures whose wisdom has been passed on in stories and “Faith & Practice”. The community of the present includes those with whom I worship, “Faith & Practice”, any book I read or person I encounter who accompanies me for a while in spirit. The community is the most important test of any leadings I may have, and it is the place where my soul is polished and smoothed in the same way the way a river polishes a stone. Even if the sensation at times is of little pebbles and sand scouring me, the outcome – rough places made smooth – is dependable and desirable.
* Religious structures are neutral: they can be helpful or spiritually deadening. So we are required to question our structures (while supporting those who take on responsibilities) all the time, take a fresh look, and expect that God may be encountered anywhere and anytime. Everything is potentially an icon, something that opens my soul to God. Although Quakers don’t incorporate outward rituals into our own structures or expectations, I am free as a Quaker chaplain to give communion and baptize, and expect that I may encounter God in doing so.
Let me point out what I did not say: I did not mention freedom of belief, for two reasons: 1. By choosing to join a denomination, I think we also voluntarily accept as our own its history and characteristics, locally and globally. We may agree or disagree with parts of it personally, but we haven chosen to accept the denomination’s definition of itself, broadly speaking. 2. Freedom of belief among Quakers is not very different from what is practiced in most other churches these days. Denominations either take a normative approach (you don’t have to believe the dogma or creed exactly, as long as your beliefs are close enough or you’re accepting of them as a statement of the group’s faith even if it’s not your own) or the Catholic approach (the Church believes the creed or dogma, and I, as a member of the Church, believe it by extension even if I don’t believe it personally).
I also did not mention diversity or broad range of beliefs, because we are actually more homogenous than many other denominations and certainly more homogenous than secular society. Our range is narrower – we have created a sub-culture which provides a safe haven from the mainstream. At the same time, I suspect that being a ”safe haven” is incompatible with being experienced as a warm and welcoming place for those (actually the majority of people, by definition) who don’t reject the same aspects of mainstream culture that many liberal Quakers do. But that’s the topic for another blog post.
Now you know why I’m a liberal Quaker.
Query of prayerful consideration:
What draws me to liberal Quakerism?

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February 26, 2008 at 5:27 am
cath
Susanne–Thank you for your post about why your are a Liberal Quaker. I must say, however, that I know Friends who would not self-identify as Liberal Quakers but who would also agree to the points you made about why you are. So I’m wondering if “we” (sort of a generalized, universal to the Quaker world “we”) are spending too much time thinking about how we are different from each other and not enough time thinking about our common ground.
cath
February 26, 2008 at 5:29 am
cath
p.s. My comment was not intended to point a finger at your discernment about your own spirituality. I hope I made that clear when I defined the “we” I was using, but in case it felt like a criticism of your own path, I apologize.
cath
February 26, 2008 at 9:06 am
Susanne Kromberg
No worries, Cath.
I am VERY pleased that it seems my theology statement could have put me in any of the branches of Quakerism! I have felt at home in liberal, evangelical, orthodox, and evangelical Quaker groups. And yet we have to belong somewhere, not everywhere, and for me sermons get in the way of the worship I seek at my home base. Especially if they are good sermons and I get caught up in them and don’t have the opportunity to listen to God’s message to me personally on the key points of the message. So when I claim liberal Quakerism as my place, I claim it because that’s what is important to me about where I am, not in the sense of “these are the things that set us apart from everyone else and nobody else has these things”.
I once heard Tom Hamm say that he thinks by splitting, each of the different branches of Quakerism was able to preserve a vital aspect of the Truth that would otherwise have been lost. That rings true to me. And so I think it is good for Friends from different branches to think of other groups as holding a core insight that we ourselves are lacking. For myself, I seek out opportunities to worship and do Bible study etc with evangelical Friends, and we are fortunate in the Pacific Northwest to have lots of opportunities to be together across these divides.
In my own life as a chaplain and spiritual director I work for a non-profit, Good News Associates, where most of the other Associates are evangelical Quakers. It is an amazingly rich cooperation.
February 26, 2008 at 9:49 am
cath
Interestingly, I am of the unprogrammed tradition, but circumstances led me to a pastoral Meeting (where they are called “messages” not “sermons,” as in “the pastor brings a message” with the emphasis on the pastor being led by the Spirit) and where I’d say a good 85% of the members and attenders are of a liberal spirituality.
So I don’t think we can easily equate worship style with theological or spiritual style.
cath
February 26, 2008 at 10:10 am
Susanne Kromberg
Cath,
I agree completely, and I don’t think we can or should make assumptions about worship style and how that does or doesn’t relate to theological or spiritual style. In my experience, what feels right to an individual as far as worship style goes is more a matter of temperament than theology.
February 26, 2008 at 8:42 pm
Paul Ricketts
Great Blog Susanne,
What draws me to liberal Quakerism?
I shared with with you couple months ago what attracts me to
Quakerism is it has always been a religion of Jesus, not about Jesus.
A religion rooted in a direct experience of God, Divine Love,Spirit of Christ.
A good Friend shared these words with me,
”Whether one understands this as divine love, fellowship, affection, or the
Spirit of Christ, it is still love. ”
However we encounter it, we aspire to live in ways that help grow compassion and love.
Tradition is another great gift the Spirit has given us….
The Greek word for tradition (paradosis) “means a transmission from one party to another, an exchange of some sort,implying living subjects.”
The living subjects for us Quakers, are the stories of are
foremothers and fathers.
My friend Vanessa Julye is co-authoring a book with Donna McDaniel,
“Fit for Freedom, Not for Friendship.” It will focus on the relationship of Quakers of European descent and African Americans in North America.
My prayer is unprogrammed Friends will continue to find ways to wrestle with theses stories and other stories from our tradition and how these stories shape our faith today.
With a larger goal to help us find new and create ways to re-connected not only with the work of the Holy Spirit but also with our living tradition.
Paul
February 27, 2008 at 7:03 am
Susanne Kromberg
Paul,
Beautifully and poetically stated.
I look forward to reading Vanessa Julye’s book – it sounds like it may bring a welcome dose of reality to some of the myths about Quaker diversity. Seeing ourselves truthfully is the first step to making the changes that justice requires.
March 1, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Paul R
Thank you Susanne…
I just read a post on the blog Embracing Complexity
http://contemplative-scholar.blogspot.com/2008/02/programming-my-unprogrammed-worship.html
Programming My Unprogrammed Worship.
I would like to share my response.
The Quaker Meeting I attend is also unprogrammed, a
nd like you I greatly value unprogrammed worship.
Spiritual dryness and spiritual frozenness?
I am finding for me its not so much about spiritual dryness or
spiritual frozenness but coming to terms with my understanding
of the Holy and worship.
There is a big part of me that has always want a esoteric
and mysticalQuaker experience in worship.
For a long time I thought it was spiritual dryness or
spiritual frozenness.
But over time, I come to understand the Holy in new and different ways.
A good Friend shared these words with me,”Whether one understands this as divine love, fellowship, affection, or the Spirit of Christ, it is still love.”
I shared these words on another blog,
However encounter it, we aspire to live in ways that help
grow compassion and love.
I fall short of these aspirations each day.
When I go to Meeting it is in the spirit of these words of the
late A. Powell Davies when he said,
“I go to church … because I fall below my own standards and need
to be constantly brought back to them … I must have my conscience sharpened–sharpened until it goads me to the most thorough and responsible thinking and action of which I am capable.”
The mystical part of Quaker Worship for me,
is not what I do or not dobut the work of the
Spirit in the silence.
The Holy uses the holy silence to sharpened are conscience
over and over so we can live in ways that helps us to grow
in compassion and love.
My view of Quaker worship is more rooted in a sacramental approach
in which the communal silence not the individual is the center.
Paul R
Silence gives us a new outlook on everything. We need silence to be able to touch souls. The essential thing is not what we say but what God says to us and through us.
Jesus is always waiting for us in silence. In that silence, He will listen to us; there He will speak to our soul, and there we will hear His voice.
Mother Teresa
March 3, 2008 at 8:57 am
Susanne Kromberg
Paul,
I love your comments on the communal nature of silence. The depth of connection as we sit together in worship never ceases to amaze me – that is what I understand true spiritual Communion to be.
March 5, 2008 at 7:49 am
Omar P.
Thanks for this post Susanne -
After a truly trying time this week spent in attempting to come to grips with significant (and unexpected) differences of opinion (theology) between myself and a well-meaning Christian colleague, this entry served as a reminder of why I am a Quaker. It was like sweet balm to my soul.
Blessings,
Omar
March 30, 2008 at 7:25 am
Tarald Stein
I’m new to quaker spirituality. Today we ended a weekend of enlightenment led by Marit K (who I think might be your mother?) here in Tromsø, Norway. It was like pulling aside the curtains to discover that there’s a window and not a wall behind them. It felt kind of like coming home, although some of it felt strange and will need some time to find it’s place within me. I’ve written some on my blogs (one norwegian and one in english) that I hope you may get the time to read and maybe comment.
I usually think better when I’m writing or speaking than just thinking. Your blog has given me the inspiration to create my own blog of faith and a model of how it can be done. Thank you!
Tarald